The holidays bring families together — often from across the country — to share meals, memories, and traditions. But they also provide something else that’s hard to come by during the year: uninterrupted time to talk about what truly matters. One of the most meaningful (and often avoided) topics families can discuss during Thanksgiving is estate planning.
It’s not always easy, but these conversations can prevent confusion, protect your loved ones, and strengthen your family’s future. Here’s why Thanksgiving might be the perfect time to have them — and how to approach it the right way.
Why Talking About Estate Planning Matters
Estate planning isn’t just about money or legal documents — it’s about care, clarity, and peace of mind. Without a plan, your family could face unnecessary stress, disagreements, or even court battles later. A simple conversation now can make a world of difference later.
According to the AARP, fewer than half of adults in the U.S. have a will or estate plan in place. Yet every family — regardless of wealth — needs one.
Learn more about the basics of Georgia estate planning on our Estate Planning Services page.
Why Thanksgiving Is the Right Time
1. Everyone’s Together
It’s rare to have so many family members in one place at the same time. Thanksgiving gives you a chance to discuss your estate plan (or your parents’) while everyone who may be affected is present.
2. It’s About Family and Gratitude
The holiday’s spirit of gratitude and reflection makes it easier to approach serious topics with love and understanding. Framing the conversation around family values, legacy, and care helps keep it positive.
3. It Encourages Transparency
When families understand the “why” behind your estate plan — who’s chosen as executor, how assets are divided, or how guardians are named — it helps prevent future resentment or confusion.
4. It Builds Trust and Prevents Surprises
By talking openly, you reduce the risk of misunderstandings after someone passes away. Everyone knows the plan and the reasoning behind it.
How to Start the Conversation
- Choose the Right Time: Pick a quiet moment — not mid-turkey dinner — when everyone’s relaxed.
- Keep It Simple: Start by explaining your motivation: protecting your family, ensuring clarity, or easing future burdens.
- Focus on Love, Not Money: Emphasize that the goal is harmony, not control or division.
- Share Where Documents Are Kept: Make sure someone knows where to find your will, trust, or advance directives.
- Encourage Input: Let family members ask questions or express wishes for how sentimental items should be handled.
For more guidance on facilitating these talks, our Georgia estate planning attorneys can help families navigate sensitive discussions with compassion and clarity.
Key Topics to Cover at the Table
- Wills and trusts – Who’s named and how the estate is divided.
- Guardianship – Who would care for minor children if something happens.
- Healthcare directives – What medical choices should be honored.
- Powers of attorney – Who can make financial or legal decisions if you’re incapacitated.
- Beneficiaries – Making sure accounts and policies are up to date.
You can find helpful guidance from the Georgia Probate Court website on these topics.
Final Thoughts
Thanksgiving is about connection, gratitude, and family. Having an honest conversation about estate planning reflects those values — protecting your loved ones and ensuring your wishes are respected. You don’t need to solve everything in one talk, but starting the conversation is a powerful first step.
If your family is gathering this holiday season, it might be the perfect time to bring peace of mind to the table. The team at Hurban Law can help you prepare or update your estate plan before the new year.
